My husband calls it my “spidey-sense”. You know, that feeling of intuition one gets proclaiming something just isn’t as it seems; or worse, that gloom and doom are on the way. My spidey-sense is fairly refined and pretty darn accurate. It’s what made me an effective congressional investigator for so many years. It’s also something my family knows not to mess with. My kids can’t outrun it. Believe me, they’ve tried. My BS detector is just too well honed for them to get past. They’ve learned to just fess up and live with the consequences. When it comes to the doom and gloom, let’s just say my track record is pretty accurate there, too; enough so that my husband doesn’t question my predictions. Actuality has made him–the wearer of rose-colored glasses—a firm believer in my intuition.
Does having such a strong intuitive nature make me a cynic? I don’t think so. I’m not Dr. Greg House from the television show, House, whose mantra is: Everybody lies. Basically, I’m just a “glass-half-full” kinda girl, who’s also a realist. There are very few things I take at face value. Perhaps it’s my inquisitive nature or just living through some hard knocks, but I like to know the facts. I’ve been known to Google statements made during a church sermon. I like to kick the tires and dig in the dirt to assure myself things are legit.
That’s why this whole Catfishing mess with Manti Te’o makes no sense to me. How does something like this go on for sooo long? Perhaps the better question is: why did it happen in the first place? What did the person perpetuating the hoax hope to gain? Sadly, Te’o is just one of thousands of people who get swept up in these types of scenarios every day. It’s kind of like that silly insurance commercial where the girl believes everything she reads on the Internet, including that her slovenly date is a French model. Are people just that gullible? I really don’t think you need an enhanced spidey-sense to fall for such nonsense, but maybe I’m wrong.
How about you? Do you have the gift of “spidey-sense”? Have you sniffed out a lie or a hoax?